tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404811671173476592024-03-12T18:02:27.894-07:00The Struggle to MaintainOne post every week for 2014Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.comBlogger104125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-19955869208395500012014-10-15T06:35:00.000-07:002016-03-10T15:20:13.197-08:00I Got Rejected By A Homeless Lady<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
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<p>A few weeks ago after a show I was standing around on the street with a friend having a smoke when a homeless lady approached us and asked for some money. There are a lot of homeless people in Shoreditch, and while I was living in The Dictionary Hostel we'd get asked at least a handful of times every day for coins or food, but every situation is different.
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If I'd thought about this sort of situation a few months ago: being approached in the streets by beggars multiple times a day, often by the same beggars, I would have guessed that the tendency over time would be towards hard-heartedness. Less, “sure thing man, good luck”, slowly giving way to more, “Fuck OFF! Why would I PAY you to interrupt me?!” If I'm honest, there have been times when I've thought both – of course there have or else I wouldn't have been able to think of something to say for both examples. Overall though, I think being asked more has actually made me more likely to stop and listen to one of these guys in any given instance, and more often than not give them a little money.
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So when this lady walked up to me and my friend outside the Comedy Cafe in Shoreditch, and asked for money, I gave her everything that I had in my pocket – 14p. That's not a lot of money, and I was looking forward to my first paycheque the next day, so the fact that it was all I had really didn't matter that much to me. After the previous three weeks of serious day-to-day poverty and walking to work and gigs because I couldn't afford the tube, and stealing food from the hostel kitchen, and counting the cents in my tips jar, finally my first pay-day was coming tomorrow: at this point the next twelve hours was just a Victory Lap. It still meant something though. I knew from my walks to work and careful area-scouting that the off license just after the Old St Roundabout sells oranges for 29p, I knew that because I'd been eating those oranges every morning on my 55-minute walk through central London to work. 14P: it's not much, but every penny counts.
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Except maybe not, apparently, because as I handed her the coins, the lady held out her hand and looked down at them, then looked up at me and said, “look, I don't know what to do with this.” Then she held her hand back out, and gave the money back.
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I have a lot of feelings about this, my first instinct right now is to write a big “FUCK YOU!” But I think after a bit of reflection that the reason I want to react that way has more to do with the fact that I felt personally slighted by her not accepting my charity.
</br> “What do you mean YOU don't know what to do with it? I've been buying oranges with only twice that amount every day for the last three weeks motherFUCKER! Are you calling me homeless? I'm not HOMELESS! I'M A MAN!” Etc. Etc... the first thing I felt when she gave the money back was that it bruised my ego, and I wanted to take her into a muted room and sit her down on a couch and communicate to her how that made me feel inside, and I thought maybe I should do it with puppets?
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Okay that's dumb, sorry.
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After a few days of thinking about it I realized I was being a self-important douche and that I needed some other people's perspectives on what had happened, so I decided to go straight to the source and ask the other homeless people around Shoreditch what they thought, so I did. A few around Shoreditch, one guy near my work in Soho, and another guy I chatted to while I was drunk at Old St Tube Station (is chatting to a homeless person while you're drunk condescending? I don't know? Do they want to be chatted to? Fuck, being liberal is hard... I'm tired of constantly flitting between feeling evil and feeling like a pussy... anybody?). My survey turned up pretty much identical responses the five or six times I asked, that this lady who asked for money from me but then when she saw the amount of money I had to offer turned it down, was rude, and awful, and possibly addicted to drugs. That sounds like I'm joking, I'm not. Honestly, that's what they all said, only two or three of them suggested the drugs thing, but they all said Fuck Her, basically, and that she was a piece of shit.
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So back at the Fuck You thing again huh? Although now for a different reason than I first thought. And now for a joke:
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“She gave me the money BACK!... are they ALLOWED to do that?! I didn't know homelessness was a profession open to wage negotiation, how do I contact the union?”
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!! Oh man! Phew, fuuuuuuuuunnnnYY!
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Seriously though, once I tried to get away from my feelings on the issue, and started thinking about it more in terms of how it could affect other people as well, what I came up with was this: begging is a pretty sad thing to have existing in the world. Asking for money from strangers, it's a pretty awful thing to have to submit yourself to, and so when you happen to be that stranger, it's a pretty shitty spot to find yourself in because you're then in the position where you basically have to (get to?) decide whether someone else is 'worthy' of your aid. It's shitty on both ends, and so it goes pretty much without saying that to initiate that sort of behaviour, you'd have to be pretty desperate, like, totally desperate. Begging should pretty much be anyone's last option, they do it only because they need to. Have to. MUST! (*POW!* Synonym!)
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If this lady really needed to be begging out there that night, if she was really so desperate for my money, or someone's money, some stranger, just any money so that she could keep on living, then she WOULD have taken my 14p. But she didn't, which means she didn't really need it, which means that she's out there begging when she doesn't need to be. I'm not going to guess at what her reasons would be for doing that, but I will say that there are plenty of people out there begging for the exact reason that I've just described – they have no more hope left in them, and they are all out of options. To disguise yourself as one of those people, and then run around Shoreditch asking for money on false pretences is pretty fucking disgusting. So yes Homeless Lady, Fuck You. Fuck You for effectively stealing from those people. Fuck You for effectively stealing from the people you've accepted money from. And Fuck You for making me think about you for A WHOLE FUCKING MONTH! FOR MAKING ME THINK ABOUT YOU MORE THAN I'VE THOUGHT CERTAIN ABOUT GIRLS I'VE DATED AND SLEPT WITH. I do not want to sleep with YOU, Homeless Lady, so FIGURE THAT OUT!!
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Phew... finally, some righteous anger. Oooooh that felt really GOOD.
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Finally though, a few weeks later I was walking down Shoreditch High St and saw a guy under the overground bridge, sitting on a milk crate, sobbing bitterly against the wall. Clearly homeless, broken. I tapped him on the shoulder and asked him what was going on and he started railing off against people on the street that would come up to him while he was talking to someone like me who'd stopped to offer him some help, but then interrupt the conversation angrily saying that he didn't deserve their help.
</br> “ 'He's here every day!' they say” - is what he said, tearfully recalling how people who were about to offer him money had been persuaded away by other folk who apparently see him all the time. “But I only need 8 pounds to get into the hostel for a week and they wash your clothes and give you food and everything!” he wailed bitterly. I went across the road and split a twenty, then came back and gave him a tenner, meanwhile thinking “what the fuck hostel is this dude talking about and how have I not heard of it? I'm paying 15 a night... do you HAVE to be homeless to get that deal?...”
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I've since heard from a bunch of people in the area that he is in fact under that bridge all the time. As soon as I stated telling the story about a crying homeless man at a party that night up the road in Seven Sisters, they knew exactly who I was talking about, and now that I remember him (ooooh that hurts, because before I made the effort to he was just white visual noise playing in the background. Ouch)... now that I remember him, I see him there all the time too. Crying bitterly, just like he was before when it made my heart hurt to look at him. But it doesn't anymore.
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Homelessness is something I still don't fully understand. Of course I don't, how could I, I've never been homeless. I have read 'Down and Out in Paris and London' by George Orwell, which is a bloody great book by the way, you should all go read it so we can feel self-important together.... ugh STAY ON TRACK!
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I've never been homeless, but I feel like I can empathize with feeling stuck in a shitty spot. Or feeling like money just keeps flying away from you and not knowing where the numbers go. Or feeling a little hopeless... so when a homeless guy (or girl, bitches can beg too!) comes up to me with sincerity in their eyes and asks for some help, if I have some coins in my pocket I'll probably, 50% of the time, grab those coins and hold out my hand. Because I still hope that out of all of them, someone is still trying.
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Eugh. I'm an idiot aren't I? I'm paying for beer and heroin aren't I? Who knows man.
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Peace, Taco.</p>
</div></big></span></span>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-60509134301052783742014-08-21T09:57:00.001-07:002014-10-15T06:33:10.009-07:00A Justification of Picking One's Nose<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
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<p>One of the great, treasured joys in my life is a good, thorough pick of the nose. I know it's gross or whatever, but it's also one of those minute social taboos where you know people can see it, but you're not shitting on a park bench or anything, so people just pretend not to notice. I like it that way, and I know most of you are squirming right now a going, “Dude, really? We get it, your nose whatever, but do you really have to talk about it?” Well no I guess not, but what the fuck else am I going to talk about?
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I got in to London today at 7am after a presumably long bus ride that was rendered short and blissful by the second-last 10mg valium tablet of the pack of 12 given to me by my friend Kay the week I left Melbourne. I arrived at Victoria Bus Station, and walked for about 80 minutes with all my bags and sweat and organs and shit to my hostel just North of Park Lane and Hyde Park (CLANG NAMEDROP!!) and after hanging out for a while applying for barista jobs online I decided to go for a walk past Marylebone Station (CLANG!!) towards Fleet Street (CLANG!!!) before I transformed into a little toy figurine of an Artillery and... okay sorry I'll stop.
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I'm a little over-excited I think... or maybe I'm not, I don't know. I don't feel the same sense of awe and wonder that I remember feeling when I first got to Melbourne, although maybe I didn't feel it back then either, and I'm just romanticising the past as often is so tempting.
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</br>That's what I wrote last time, day one, July 11th 2012. This time I feel a bit more sure of myself, I know what I'm doing a little better, and I'm trying not to write so grandiose...ly(?).
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Oh jesus I just realized I just quoted myself. Wow. Fuck. Sorry. Oh my god... anyway. Bah.
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It would be nice to say that it feels like love at first sight with London, I mean that would fit the narrative perfectly: “young man travels across globe with twenty pounds and a towel, falls in love with city, wins life, dies surrounded by loved ones aged 85¼”. I don't think it quite is though, I just walked around today trying to feel that sense of wonder and awe, trying to tease it out of myself, but instead just feeling sort of content. I think it may be a case of, “let's definitely keep seeing each other”, rather than love at first sight this time. I will keep putting that phrase in here though, because even if I don't feel it, it's bound to turn up a few hits to my blog from popular Google searches. “'Love at first sight'? Oh I LOVE love!” LOLOLOL. While we're at it: “does he really like me?”; “why does it hurt when I pee?”; “how to make moonshine”. It's a numbers game guys, let's be honest with ourselves.
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I meandered through the centre of the city today, my hostel being on the Western side and an interview for a barista job being on the East. The place just keeps going, I walked for almost two hours in a straight line and the rolling buildings four, five, six stories high just kept coming and coming and coming. I waited out the front of the cafe for like half an hour and did some writing, then went inside, made some coffees, chatted to the guy and got a final trial shift for Tuesday. I left feeling great.
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Also someone from Melbourne said something really nice to me over Facebook chat, and so as I walked down more streets surrounded by looming stone giants my smiling turned to heel-clicks and I broke out into a weird, celebratory jog/skip for a few metres every block or so. It sounds dumb here, and I'm sure it looks dumb in person too, but I have fun guys, I really do. Promise.
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I had a rest underneath this statue of some guy called Charles James Fox who I've never heard of and is more famous that I'll ever be, and noticed that my left foot hurt from all the walking – three hours. My body felt weird from the coffee – double shot: unnecessary. I was cold and hot at the same time, and couldn't figure out whether to leave my jacket on or off, or draped around my shoulders, or whether I should just throw it over a tree branch and abandon it forever. Charles James Fox eh? Good on ya, I wonder if old Foxey ever went for a bit of the Ye Olde Nose-Pick? Because that's what I did sitting at the foot of his grand statue there, looking stately, erected MDCCCXVI. I sat there for at least a whole minute, picking away, and that was the highlight of my first day in London.
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If you're reading this and feel in any way connected to the things I've just said, then please walk down the street and click your own heels, or say something nice to a friend you love and admire, and if you see someone picking their nose call out to them, wave, and then give them a thumbs up. Because it's nice, and they've earned it.
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Peace, Taco.</p>
</div></big></span></span>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-11095730951308113162014-08-18T10:41:00.001-07:002014-08-21T09:57:50.163-07:00Smokers are Jokers<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
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<p>Today I climbed to the top of Arthur's Seat with two girls I met last night in my hostel, and then on the climb down I ruined any possibly lingering chance of getting with either of them by engaging in a lengthy conversation about our recent sexual encounters. A fair trade, I guess, to find out what Tessa and Amanda (well, Tessa mainly) have been getting up to in the last few weeks. Her soon-to-be-ex-husband smiled out of her phone from drunken wedding pictures, as she told us about a Welshman's... eguh actually no.
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What I really wanted to write about was smoking, I've been doing it again lately. Well, fuck for like two months now – it creeps up on you doesn't it, like friendship, or love for a small child. “Goo-goo-ga-ga I luv you I luv you”, says the cigarette.
</br> "I guess you can stay”, says the Me, “but ONLY for a few weeks!”
</br> "Goo-goo-ga-ga,” says the cigarette, clearly thrilled with the offer.
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I said when I was enjoying the last weeks of my life in Melbourne that I'd just do it as a celebration: “fuck it, I'm doing everything else, why not now I've been off them for four years!” Well I'm still technically off them, I guess, because I haven't bought a packet, but today while climbing that small less-than-300m mountain (hill? It's not “a seat”, and in fact I have no idea why it's called that because it doesn't look like one either) I felt that tightness of chest and shortness of breath and Tessa ahead of me said “my smoking lungs need a rest.” I agreed with her, and at the same time admitted to myself that although she had paid for the pack in her backpack, we were in the same boat.
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For shame, for shame. Smokers are Jokers.
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Back in 2009 I used to coo that out to my friends while we were drinking at UniBar in Adelaide, out on the balcony with plastic cups full of Coopers that we were still pretending we knew how to like. “Smokers are Jokers guys AHAHAHAHAHAHA!” Exaggerated, mocking laughter. So they started putting cigarettes in my mouth to shut me up while I was drunk, and I took them because they were free and because I started to see why everyone thought they were so fucking cool.
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They've really done a number on us these companies, peddling their wizard fire-sticks to us that burn our lungs and stain our fingers and make that gross paste-y stuff come out of whatever pink tube that guy squeezes it out of on the anti-smoking advert. They've really done a fantastic job making us think that these things are awesome, because that's what I genuinely believe. It's a beautiful cherry on top of that sloppy, Saturday Night Cake, late at a dingy bar with a pool table inside, beer in hand that I know how to like now because I taught myself... it really is great to have a cigarette.
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So now it's a war between them and me. Between the people who would have my money off me, and the shirt off my back too I'm sure if they could, for some stupid little fucking fire sticks that hang out of my mouth when I'm feeling needy. It makes me angry to know that some company who wants nothing more than to use me like a plot of land to farm money off of has driven me so far away from my own self-interest that I know sincerely believe that this thing that they are selling me. This poisonous, addictive, pointless and utterly evil thing, makes me into a more interesting person.
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Sigh. Cough. Sigh again. Smokers are jokers. Smokers are jokers.
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It's tempting to say, “oh but smokers aren't the jokers, the joke is on them!” and that would be fine, and true, but it's too damn simple, isn't it. I'm sure there are some people that really enjoy smoking and feel like it adds something tangible to their lives, and is worth the years they are taking off of it at the end. I'm sure too that if smoking were not advertised as invasively as it is today and all the health risks were known, there would still be people out there doing it. Just like heroin, just like everything – there's a market for anything, and anyone will try something once.
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So there's no joke really, there's some people trying to make money off of some other people like me, who resent being made money off of, and there are other people, maybe a less complicated folk, who don't find themselves bothered by these kinds of thoughts: not bothered – as I clearly am – with obsessions over power. Not constantly paranoid about it's role in their lives. From me, I say good on those people, and to the people trying to make money off of my weaknesses, I say fuck you they're mine, and get your hands out my pockets.
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Smokers are Jokers... I think I might stop saying that.
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Peace, Taco.</p>
</div></big></span></span>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-92071140996435334932014-08-15T05:30:00.001-07:002014-08-18T10:48:42.350-07:00I Can't Focus<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
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<p>The world is so fucking hard to take in. In the early hours of yesterday's morning I was drunk and sent a message to the effect of “comedy is hard, life is hard, agh agh AGH! Sadthings HELP!?” to Melanie in France, and after passing out, awoke at midday feeling hungover but contrastingly happy about life. It was sunny in Edinburgh, and I went to the park to enjoy a sit in the warm grass, the length of which should surprise every weatherman in a 10km radius. After grinning while watching a young couple be in love with each other and giving them a round of applause as they walked off hand-in-hand sighing into each other's eyelids, I checked my phone to see that I had a response from Melanie. A beautiful, thoughtful, and concerned response to my saddened messages the night before.
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“But I don't feel like that anymore?”
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The relentless up-and-down sickness of day to day life is... well it's relentless is what it is. If ever I manage actually pin down one specific feeling at any moment in a day, I've learned that the best bet is that that feeling will be gone the next time I have the chance to take stock. It's like being below deck in a ship during a storm, and the light keeps flicking off for long periods of time, only coming on for a few minutes at a time, and during those minutes of valuable clarity I quickly scan my surroundings checking the position of the bed, desk, chair, chamber pot, stove, various spoons etc. The storm doesn't stop, but at least when the lights go out again I'll have something to go by. And they go out again, and again I'm tossing and turning below deck in the dark, fumbling around for a spatula.
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That's why it's so hard to grasp at any particular thought for an extended period of time and flesh it out. That's the most frustrating thing, it's what keeps these posts flailing around the 1000-word mark, and what keeps me sending messages full of emoticons to the phones and laptops of friends across the world telling them that I just found a penny.
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I read something yesterday about a guy who spent 18 months without a phone or computer or anything, and he made a great point that I've heard made before about how the internet is another dimension of our world. It's amazing that we are able to traverse this new dimension, full of information and entertainment, and connectivity to other people, but while we try to focus on this new dimension, the physical one we already occupy is still all around us, so we can never fully BE in one or the other. We're stuck in limbo, with one foot in each of these worlds, and therefore never experiencing anything. That's why these thoughts that I keep having come and go like lightning strikes, so bold and clear one minute, then racing away the next. A flash, a shadow in the sky, and then gone.
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I had two great gigs yesterday, and met some cool people in my dorm, but I also read about the outbreak of police brutality and attacking of protesters in the US town of Ferguson. So I made new friends, and then was made angry by something happening overseas. And then I went for my walk, and witnessed young love, and clapped, and then it rained and my shoes got wet, and then I did some great gigs, but before that I had to flyer in the rain and someone was a dick to me. And I remember it all so clearly, I must have been up and down three or four times, and that's worrying because I know there's always a danger that with too much colour in a palette it can all start turning to grey.
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I guess I just need to slow down a little with this life shit. Don't want to blow a fuse now. I'm wearing a really bright shirt today, for no other reason than the guys in my dorm were drinking Jim Beam at 10am, and I wanted to match their enthusiasm. I wish these blogs would turn out better, but they're really not right now, they're just coming out like quaint little travelogues, but I guess that's just one more thing that I'm going to have to be okay with.
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Peace, Taco.</p></div></big></span></span>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-76895556347971754952014-08-03T07:36:00.003-07:002016-03-10T15:25:05.652-08:00Forty-Eight Hours Later<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
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And it's hard.
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I promise this will make sense later, I'm not just telling you because it's funny, although that is one reason why I want to tell you that... yesterday, twice, I sat on a toilet and looked about in a panic, suddenly realizing that my cubicle had no toilet paper. Twice... some people don't even sit on a toilet twice in one day at all, but I guess I don't get to be one of those people. This is one thing I have feelings about.
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The second time I was in a trendy bar in Liverpool and it was around 8pm, I had met up with Faye, a girl I met at a comedy show in Melbourne earlier this year, and another friend of hers to drink and be merry. I escaped my dilemma in in the toilet when I found a few scraps of paper on the windowsill. Afterwards we all left for her friend's twin sister's house, I played pool against some Liverpudlian (oooooh that's weird and fun!) guys and we got proper drunk. I woke up in the morning on a deflated inflatable mattress in a room that smelled intensely of mango-scented candles.
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The first time I'd found myself trapped in a toilet was just after eating breakfast at some diner, it was £6.50 and fine – everything sort of tasted the same. I tore out a page from my notebook this time – reminiscing about Bolivia where I learned that trick – and then pulled up my pants from the floor to hear the unexpected PLOP of my phone dropping into the bowl. My knuckles may have brushed poop – it all happened so fast I can't remember exactly – but when I got it out it was broken, so an hour later I bought a new one.
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Before that, in the morning, I went for a walk from my hostel, which I had booked for the wrong weekend but luckily, upon arriving the night before managed to secure a bed at anyway after five minutes of gripping terror at the prospect of having spent £21.50 to take a cab from one place I wasn't allowed to sleep at to another. The stroll took me through thirty minutes of bleak semi-industrial blocks, fenced off areas, and a highway without crossing lights, in the rain, which definitely became heavier the further I walked from shelter.
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The night before I had been on a flight from Geneva to Liverpool which left at 9:45pm, I ordered a chicken soup because I thought it would be nice, and “some water” because I thought it would be free. Neither turned out to be true, and after paying £7 for the two and taking a sip of my water I contemplated the depths of my own righteous fury, which distracted me for the rest of the flight and well into Liverpool's John Lennon Airport, where I finally realized that I had left my three-pound bottle of water on the plane.
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So yeah, these are all stupid things and mostly my fault, and I keep noticing myself in these situations and genuinely laughing at my dumbfulness... and then I get confused, why am I laughing? Phones cost money. Bums need to be wiped. Sleeping on the street on you first night in a new country is not a thrilling adventure, and £7 is a lot of fucking money... I am reacting strangely to this world.
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Like right now I'm sitting in a dorm room at a hostel with five other guys, none of whom are talking to eachother, and one of whom keeps clearing his sinuses in that really gross INWARD-SNIFF way that I admittedly have been guilty of before, in my feebler moments. I am fuming with rage right here, but I can feel how unreasonable my negative reaction to this all is – I keep looking around wide-eyed like someone is going to turn to me and go, “I KNOW RIGHT! This dorm sucks haha! Let's go get cocktails!” But they don't, they just keep watching movies and scratching their various itches and that one guy's sinuses just keep needing to be sniffed clear while he sits on his bed eating CHIPS!!?
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Really though I think I'm just feeling a little isolated, delicate, and precariously alone.
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At the airport, in Geneva, just before walking through the security screening gate, where I would clumsily pull my laptop out of my bag and unwrap the towel that I keep around it for padding. Before I lost my first bottle of water and my almost-new can of deodorant to the border patrol. Before I hurriedly stuffed books in my pockets to make sure my hand-luggage would be light enough to travel after hearing that oversized bags would be turned away, and before I knew how stupid the next 48 hours would be. Before all of that, I shared a hug, and a kiss – the last one – with Mélanie Cartal, the girl I fell in love with three years ago, and have second-guessed ever since. We shone under fluorescent lights. That night we took one last breath, and then closed the book, and ended our story together.
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It's... intense. You know? Because for three years I've held a tiny hope for me and her, and that doomed flame has kept me going at times, but that night we extinguished it, because if we're both honest with ourselves, it was never going to burn again on its own anyway. There is sadness there, but also joy because now for the first time in almost three years, in that part of me, I think I just may be right with myself.
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I don't know why this guy with his fucking chips is making me brainstorm efficient strategies for night-time murder-suicides, or why I'm laughing while my life, which I have packed into two bags that both pre-date my high school graduation, is falling apart around me, those feelings confuse me. But thinking about the end of that thing that ended on Friday, strange and indefinable as it was, that's not confusing, it's just hard. It means that I'm feeling slightly shaky right now, because my heart is a little bit broken from doing the right thing for once.
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Oh my god he just fucking sniffed again I'm actually going to burn this fucking place to the ground.
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Peace, Taco.</p></span></span></big></div>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-57108510479492294972014-07-21T00:54:00.000-07:002014-08-03T07:55:37.532-07:00I'm Arrived!<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<big>
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
<p>So I arrived in Paris. “J'ai arrivé”... which apparently is wrong; it's “Je suis arrivé”. It didn't take long for the memories to start flooding back: being alone, in a foreign country, where you do not speak the language, is not only terrifying, and a source of constant embarrassment, but also potentially very fucking boring.
</p><p>
The journey was from the plane, to airport, to regional train, to metro train, to street in the centre of the 10th district of Paris. First there were bi- and tri-lingual signs, and announcements in French, English, and Spanish – it's as if this country could tell that whenever I hear a language other than English, my monkey brain reaches for the only other thing I know, and starts spouting spectacularly adequate Español. This includes while ordering at a French restaurant, and while talking to Parisian police officers. Dickhead. Slowly the industry and dirty train-yards give way to dense residential flats, French graffiti, French people, French signs. The announcements were in French, and French only. I began to rue the last few weeks when I had continuously put off making a start at learning this god damn language. Je ne parle pas français... and feeling like a piece of shit.
</p><p>
The hostel was named 'Friends Hostel' – I'm still trying to figure out which linguistic category this name occupies. Is it irony? Is it a joke? Is it just completely irrelevant? The best analogy I can think of right now would be if you started working for a lawn-mowing company called 'Friends Lawnmowers'. Sounds descriptive sure, but then on your first day no one speaks to you about lawnmowers, or at all, and after telling you that you'll be sharing the keys for your lawnmower with five other people (lawnmowers have keys), you walk into the Lawnmower Room (LR) to find that actually all of the lawnmowers start on their own and the key has disappeared anyway. And then you go on break, even though you haven't done any work yet, and there are a bunch of other people in the break room who look like they have also just started today, and no one knows where the boss is, or who he is, his name, or what he even looks like, and for some reason everyone is speaking Spanish. When you finally get back to the LR (picking up the industry slang ('Jargon' – OOOOH!!) quickly) you find that the lawnmower you were supposed to be using is being used by someone else, but not to cut grass, they're just riding it backwards like a dumb, stupid horsey-horsey, and you're like, “what even is this fucking company? I don't hate it, in fact I'm having quite a good time... but I feel like this is not the way things are supposed to work, and I'm sure someone, somewhere, is mucho is disappointed.”
</p><p>
Well that's what 'Friends Hostel' in Paris was like. That, and they have a lot of stairs.
</p><p>
It was a in a pretty shitty area of town, and it wasn't until my second day that I actually realized this wasn't all that one of the most famous cities in the world had to offer. Honestly, for about a day and a half until I ventured into the tourist district with all the museums and statues and junk, I thought the whole city was full of criminals (or at least dudes whose eyes move quickly) splashing themselves with water from the road because it was a little hot out. The whole city. It's not just that though, there's also a river... ha. ha. ha. Okay I promise I won't do that again...
</p><p>
It's strange going from the clearly demarcated and meticulously planned cities of Australia to somewhere that has evolved over several thousand years. There are no neat, parallel roads and parklands dividing the CBD from the suburbs... I got lost on Magenta and Stalingrad streets for seriously about an hour. Walking around in circles. I went into some huge church – Eglise Saint-Laurent – and listened to some French priest deliver his sermon for about twenty minutes. HA! I'm sitting here right now laughing at myself sitting there trying to attain some sort of peace from sitting in this huge building while a French man droned monotonously about Jesus Christ. To be honest, it was just nice to sit down... maybe that's what church is about? I'm not as anti-religion as I used to be. I found myself appreciating it on SOME sort of weird level and the whole experience is still a little obscure to think about.
</p><p>
I'm getting off track.
</p><p>
Highlight of day two was drinking two bottles of wine with Katie from Wollongong who I met on the walking tour I did in the morning. We sat on the banks of the Seine with all the other French hipsters and talking about life, comedy, writing, boys and girls, and the cheese that I had left in my bag since our first leisurely drinking session that afternoon: she refused to eat any as I had no knife, and was cutting it with my South Australian driver's license (FULL Drivers License, thankyou). Then I got lost on my way back to the hostel, and thighs chafing red as the rose we had drunk in the sun that afternoon, I wandered the Northern parts of the 10th district of Paris, France, past the homeless sleeping under the train line, and finally made it home in time to pack by 2:30am and set my alarm for 5:30. Trains to catch in the morning.
</p><p>
Also I walked down the Champs-Élysées, climbed the Arc de Triomphe, saw Napoleon's tomb, the Eiffel Tower, and the Mona Lisa in the Louvre. Getting swindled by Parisian grifters was better though, but that's a story for another time. I'm going to lie down now, I'm feeling a little tired.
</p><p>
Peace, Taco.</p></span></span></big></div>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-44241171665556386532014-07-15T23:05:00.000-07:002014-08-03T07:56:59.086-07:00Okay Okay Okay! I'm Leaving Already<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<big>
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><p>This last week has been probably the best week of my life.
</p><p>
From going out to a horrible bar at 1:30am on a Thursday, after having two great gigs that night, and meeting someone amazing, to reliving old memories with old friends from Adelaide in a loud nightclub on Friday, driving around until 10am on Saturday, and passing out in my room surrounded by friends. Saturday night, the best comedy night I've been to out of a solid pool of around 500 or so in my last two years in Melbourne – a night all about ME(?!) no less, oh the gratuitous ego-stroking. My parents were there, and everyone DESTROYED and I was reminded how lucky I am to have found the community of people I have in Melbourne and the friends that surround me. Rob putting a smoking log from the fire inside his jacket, me selling Mark Bozworth's washing powder to the highest bidder in a final, deliciously sweet act of revenge. Getting a frankly terrible portrait made of me by a girl in a bar who “[doesn't] smoke, but I do smoke weed, because I'm an artist.” and showing it to people in the line at KFC at 4am. Sleeping on my floor again. Waking up with a numb shoulder and fear in my heart, realizing that everything was almost finished.
</p><p>
Listening to a history podcast about a Manson-like siege in a German village in the 1530s while lying sprawled on my rug-covered-with-fitted-sheet and waiting for 3:30am. Watching Germany win the World Cup. Getting drunk again, and again, and again, and again, and thinking my body was about to give up as I danced on the beer-soaked floor of the German club until 10am Monday morning – someone painted their flag on my face, and for a few hours I didn't care, I just wanted to be part of the celebrations.
</p><p>
In theory, I hate conga lines.
</p><p>
Seeing my fam – Mum, Dad, and Brother – off with a throbbing hangover and jittery from the shakes as we sipped coffee and prepared our goodbyes. Giving my Mum a Hug.
</p><p>
I found the best fucking laundromat in Melbourne that night, it has a cafe and phone chargers and a communal laptop and WiFi and Blackadder playing on the TV and a back yard smoking area and you take washing powder for a dollar a scoop, and you put the dollar because no one is looking and you don't want to feel like a bad person. I had a great conversation with my ex-girlfriend/divorced wife Rachel, and she is doing great. I had a solemn goodbye to Jess, who is having a hard time right now, but I know she's gonna pick it up, cos she a strong, modern lady. And boy, that chica can SING!
</p><p>
My last gig was on Tuesday night, my last night in Melbourne, and I had a good one. And then Oliver Clarke CRUSHED the room and closed by singing a frankly moving love song to a sandwich and I could not stop laughing. Then we went to Noodle Kingdom and acted out noisilly, and a busker played No Woman No Cry on the street so I sang along with him, and the homeless man next to us didn't quite know the words. Some guy in the toilets at Exford put his phone in his mouth to do up his fly, and I commented on the brilliance of his move, because I'm always scared if I try it the phone will fall out, to which he replied, “yeah man, I've got a pretty deep mouth.”
</p><p>
Of course you do...
</p><p>
This last week has been the best week of my life.
</p><p>
Now I'm sitting here on my bedroom floor, looking at the writing on the walls that Luka, Blake and I painted ourselves nine months ago, scrawled on a handful of drunken nights, messages to myself from these last frantic days in Melbourne. I'm sure I can be forgiven for feeling very, strangely scared. Out into the abyss again... just when it was all getting to feel comfortable.
</p><p>
Thankyou to everyone who has been a part of my life for the last two years, it's been amazing. Don't worry, I'm leaving already, I promise I'll stop talking about it soon.
</p><p>
And now I will quote from one of the great poets of our time, the inimitable Prodigy, of Mobb Deep: “To all my niggas: get the money, frontin' niggas: get deceased.”
</p><p>
Sorry for cursing.
</p><p>
Peace, Taco.</p></span></span></big></div>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-20346508633032999482014-02-17T16:34:00.001-08:002014-07-21T00:58:18.797-07:00Love Note to No One<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<big>
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
open the door to my room which has no lock and barely any need for a
latch, either by kicking it mid-stride or flinging my right arm out,
fist balled up, to strike it. There was supposed to be a lock put on
the door just after I moved in but I can never be bothered stressing
Mick, the owner of the pub, to do it. Four months here and still
nothing missing, every day fills me with unearned confidence in my
neighbours. There's a fire alarm on the roof that beeps
intermittently because it is low on battery; it has been doing that
since I got here and even though Mick gave me a new battery to put in
it so it wouldn't beep, I haven't done shit.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Sometimes
the kick or punch I deliver to the door doesn't open it all the way,
these times are due to the latch being caught on what is left of it's
hole in the door frame. On these days I hip-and-shoulder the door
open once I am face-to-face with it, and inevitably I make my way
inside. It's night time usually. My shoes are the first to come off
after I sit down in the chair I found on the side of the road in
Glandore, Adelaide, the suburb where I grew up before leaving in
July, 2012. 5037. Taking my shoes off isn't a huge priority, but it
always feels nice, and the time it takes usually coincides with the
time it takes my computer to turn on or at least come off of sleep
mode after I sit down. The chair creaks – I have never had it
checked for disease. I wiggle my toes after removing my socks and
making a quick calculation concerning whether they are clean enough
to wear tomorrow. Yes or no: on any day this is a fifty-fifty
decision.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Internet,
depending on whether or not I have it at the moment. Sometimes I'm in
luck and the router downstairs is turned on so I can sneakily
piggyback off of the pub's internet (I'm not supposed to be, but the
password is c37636e6 so how could I not?). Often the router is turned
off though, and in those cases I either use my phone as a router and
stick to text-based websites, or stay off line and play some music. I
take my pants off next, and then my shirt, and turn the music up a
little as the air settles, the window was probably already open
unless it's been raining but it's summer at the moment and it's been
summer for months now. If I leave the door open a nice breeze flows
through the window and cuts the stillness over my bed which has been
drenched in sunlight all day. Over my chair and out, I leave a shoe
on the floor to stop the door from slamming shut.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">At
some point I will lean back on my chair almost far enough so that it
will fall over, but not quite, because I have pretty good balance and
I trust myself, but when I pop back up I feel all the more tired, and
ready for bed. I don't like sleeping with light on, and that includes
a computer screen, but I do like having something to listen to that
will lull me into my unconscious. I shut the door because I like to
sleep naked. Plug my phone in, climb into bed, put my phone on the
dresser, set an alarm for the morning – if I don't have work, seven
hours from now is a good time to wake up. If my hair is tied up I
take it down and put the hair-tie on my table, somewhere easy to
find. Look around, one last time, flip my pillows over, flip them
again, find two that combine their height to make something like a
nice, comfortable head rest. Settle in. Kick the quilt off, pull it
back, poke my feet out the end. Yawn. Open eyes close again, open,
close, open, droopy. Feel my legs twitch a few times in a state of
half awakedness. Awakening? Awa...kened...full... Questions
questions... silent thoughts...</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<br />
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">and
then I think of you.</span></span></div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-73907451082254049512014-02-11T17:43:00.004-08:002014-02-11T17:44:29.956-08:00The Happiest Birthday<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><big>Dear
Diary, this week I have had the most exciting and eventful week EVER!
By golly, so many things have happened, unexpected surprises, fun
gatherings, laughs, and many memories. That's right, Diary, My
Birthday Week has surpassed all expectation. Wistful Sigh.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Ha.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">On
Tuesday I woke up and wandered hazily through the hallway at Station
59, into the kitchen (kitchen?) area and stuck my water bottle under
the tap. As I turned it on I remarked to the ever-present and always
half-asleep Jake lying sprawled and homeless on the couch, “dude
what the fuck is that smell in here? It's not bad, but it's like...
not good either.” It kind of reminded me of cheese?<br /> “I don't
know what you're talking about bro.” He replied from a dream before
rolling back over and continuing his care-free existence. I love that
guy, the guy who always seems to be there, always hanging around,
somehow managing to cling on to a life that exists behind the closed
doors of possibility. Where are your clothes? Where are your
belongings? Where do you keep your toothbrush?</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Tuesday
night at the Rochester for my birthday was one of our best nights
yet, Mitch crushed it as MC, heaps of crew turned out, and I had more
fun on stage than I've had recently doing twenty minutes as the
headliner. And then we got drunk. Before the show Luka and I went to
a shaving store where he bought me my birthday present: a $40 shaver
– FOR MY FACE AND SHIT – and when we got to the Rochy I went
upstairs to the disused bathroom to give it a spin. It was great. You
should all touch my face.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">The
thing about getting drunk is that you wake up hungover, the world is
dulled, and you notice nothing, mind numb on the plod to the nearest
water source. Stumbling like a dying camel through desert. In the
middle of summer the heat makes you feel alone. It's stuffy. Jake was
there again on Wednesday, and again on Wednesday I could smell
something thick, heavy, hanging in the air.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">That
night Corey White – just having moved down from Brisbane – came
with us to the Great Britain Hotel open mic and met a beautiful lady
who he fell so madly in love with that he proclaimed to the world out
Luka's back window: “I want to suck her ankles!” She played
mournful piano tunes with singing and everyone felt her magic. Before
that Corey had bought me a 30c cone from McDonalds, and afterwards
Luka dropped me off at the office I clean every Wednesday night. On
the walk home I walked past the brothel that I can always tell is
open during the night because of the dim and otherwise-superfluous
red light that stands out from the bored Collingwood back streets
filled with warehouse windows, red brick, and shatter-proof glass.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Thursday
was a journey through the city in a day containing rising waves of
visible heat and my exodus from a home that continued to emit some
random odour – it must be seeping out from the walls. No Jake today
to bounce ideas off of. Then Friday we went to Doug Gordon's BBQ and
tried to make cigarettes out of the tobacco that a friend of a friend
of a friend (NO LEGAL CULPABILITY) saw fall (made grow) off the back
of a truck (in his backyard). Apparently it's super illegal, but I
can't really see why because even after two or three weeks drying the
stuff out it didn't taste much different – maybe a little like a
cigar – and definitely wasn't the hit of the party it had the
potential to be. Doug's table setup was toppled by a drunken Dick
Wakefield, and we left to go home but stopped off at Mentone Beach to
have a swim and ended up five guys dipping skinny in the moonlit
water throwing a frisbee. That is not a euphemism... well, maybe
'dipping skinny' is, or a metaphor, or whatever, but I'll tell you
now. We are DEFINITELY not gay.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">But
I challenge anyone to have a more hilarious time with four mates and
no women than swimming naked at the beach at night. The gauntlet has
been thrown down.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Saturday
night at the drive-in cinema Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit was playing,
and even though it seemed like it was going to be an absolutely
terrible movie, it defied all expectations and was merely awful
instead. We found out that Rob doesn't know how to do a cartwheel and
Tamara and I talked about maybe moving in together in May this year
if we can find a cheap place but I didn't want to think about money.
Of the forty dollars worth of cheese, meats, and crackers that Luka
and I bought for that evening, half of it is still sitting in his car
days later, probably rotting, and definitely foul. That's funny to me
for some reason.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">On
Sunday I had the best night of all after working all day as a promo
guy dressed up as a pretend paramedic trying to administer Oak
flavoured milks to people at the St Kilda Festival who we deemed to
be suffering from 'hungrythirsty'. We did a bunch of high-energy
act-outs that I'll proably include in my audition tape for Play
School, and I drank a lot of chocolate, ice coffee, strawberry, and
the new flavour whose name I forget. Fuck Vanilla. That night I
called up a lovely lady and we had a fantastic evening drinking while
drinking for and subsequently dancing to Art vs Science – a band
who I have heard are phenomenal live but have missed twice in the
past. They didn't disappoint and at the peak of the performance, some
guy managed to stand up in the crowd with his feet at everyone else's
head-level and flash his wang to the band, what a genius. Seriously.
That is absolutely fantastic. After the show we had more drinks,
danced to a great DJ playing current club bangers, and then made our
way to some random pub somewhere, watched a great band, and I managed
to get up on stage and rap. Fuck yes. Fuck yes. Fucking what? What
was that night? What were the last seven days? How fucking good is my
life right now?</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Sitting
in a chair at my parents' house with a tissue stuffed up my left
nostril because I tried to pick it forgetting that my blood gets thin
in hot weather, I can't help but be a little impressed with what I've
managed to do with myself in the days since I turned twenty-three. I
haven't even stopped to say Happy Birthday to my smiling face in the
mirror yet, not that I've ever done that before, but maybe I should.
Maybe that's something I need to start doing, just a little
congratulations for making it through another year. Don't laugh, and
don't begrudge me this small pleasure, I think I'm being serious...
okay, I'm about to go do it.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Oh,
and I hope you're all doing well too.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<br />
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Peace,
Taco.</span></span></div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-31651092025995495352014-02-02T19:52:00.000-08:002014-02-11T17:45:08.885-08:00Continuously Rolling Can Continuously Rolls, Continuously<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">When
I saw the can rolling across the empty car park of Preston train
station, it was dark with the night and illuminated only by the
lonely flood-lights hanging from metal poles stuck in the ground and
rooted there. I felt a surge of energy come from inside me. In the
fifteen seconds it took me to decide to pull my phone out and record
it, my spirits had lifted, gone from half-smiling and peaceful,
melancholy resignation, to excited. Onward to ecstatic. Happiness.
Authentic joy.</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
OH! The </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i>catharsis!</i></span></span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Of
course, things hadn't been going wrong entirely.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Ever
since getting back from Falls and Byron Bay I've been feeling a
little off. It always takes a while to acknowledge these kinds of
things, and then a while longer to start acknowledging them to other
people – for me anyway. This up-and-down beast is still something
I'm coming to terms with, I'm sure everyone feels it at some point:
sometimes we're happy, sometimes we're sad, sometimes we're manic,
sometimes we're inert, sometimes we're jumping on bins and sometimes
we're lying in bed wishing the day away. Sometimes the guy who lives
two rooms down from us and who we hate because he cut off our
internet for no reason other than that he thinks we're a dick walks
past our open door at 1am in the middle of a 5-day heatwave and
casually looks into our room to find our embarrassingly naked body
sprawled out on our bed as we try to catch the remnants of wind
through the window in the hope that we might fall asleep. Sometimes
life throws us a curveball.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">On
Australia Day I decided to try and describe my feelings of late to a
few of my close friends for the first time, thereby also
acknowledging them myself. I said that, normally, what I'm used to
experiencing in cycles of varying lengths are dizzying manic highs and
depressing lonely lows, but normally the highs feel high, like maybe
eight out of ten points above zero, and the lows feel average, like
maybe four or five points below. Lately though, it felt like the
ratio had been flipped, so my highs were like fives out of ten, and
my lows were at negative eight. I don't know whether this was
accurate, or still is? Or what part of it I would change if I were to
change some, but it did honestly feel like I hadn't been myself for
the better part of three weeks.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Naw
:(</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Normally
Australia Day is one of my favourite – if not my ABSOLUTE FAVOURITE
day of the year. Maybe New Years beats it out, or the first day of
Winter, or the first day of Summer, or maybe the day I meet the
year's coolest person, but for me Australia Day is always a
highlight. It's got nothing to do with the whole nationalism schtick,
at least, not directly for me, it's just that everyone is always in a
good mood on Australia Day. Everyone is always down for fun, and
everyone has the day off, and everyone is happy and excited, for
whatever reasons they each might have. And this excitement is
infectious, because there's nothing better than good vibes to bounce
a smile off. This year though it seemed like my Australia Day was
headed for bland mediocrity as I failed to make any plans and spent
most of the day moping around my room and the bar in ever more
hopeless alternation.</span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
took part in the debate, “There's Nothing Funny About Australia”
– a shameless nod to an embarrassing event from 2012 that I am sure
no one but about three people continue to care about. I played a few
games of pool. I fell asleep in a sunbeam, and somehow failed to
enjoy even that. I had a quick Skype to my ever-faithful and dear
friend Melanie in France, who lifted my spirits briefly.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">At
around 10pm Alice and Jaimie came around and picked me and Kev up and
we went to Carlton Gardens with the soccer ball, met up with Luka and
Beau, and then after another short while the girls left. Beau, Luka,
Kev and I ended up chalking out a four-square court on the brick
floor in the Exhibition Centre, taking off our shirts, and playing
like primary school kids for around an hour until something like 2am.
It was absolutely fantastic, and I felt like my day on the 26</span></span><span style="color: black;"><sup><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">th</span></span></sup></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
of January had been finally salvaged. Saved, and redeemed, against
all the odds.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Turning
points never really feel like 'turning points' when they are
happening. Maybe that's because the very idea of a turning point is a
wishful and impossible concept, because life doesn't exist in simple
one-way trajectories of up and down, good and bad, happy and unhappy.
Emotions are things to be felt, and in every moment a cocktail of
conflicting thoughts – reactions to life at large – is mixed
together to bring about the distinctive, unique feeling. Moments can
never be purely good or bad, but somehow because we can only process
one thing at a time, the aggregate of feelings inside of us tends to
express itself as one single point, somewhere on the happiness scale.
From Australia Day, and for the next twenty-four hours or so until my
trip on the train the night after, it felt like the scales were
tipping, and so in the useless tradition of backwards-looking
introspection, a turning point is what I'll have to call it. Because
right now, I feel happy again, just happy. And I can't bring myself
to try and break that down into its constituents.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">When
I got on the train on the 27</span></span><span style="color: black;"><sup><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">th</span></span></sup></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">,
I had no idea that I was getting on the wrong one – I had never
intended to go end up sitting in a car park at night, waiting for my
lift and staring into the fluorescent-lit darkness. But after sharing
a laugh with some fellow travellers over our mutually futile
appreciation of a beautiful girl, I didn't much care. I got off at
somewhere, and backtracked to Preston where Luka could come to pick
me up. As I sat on the steps writing joke ideas in my notebook, I
spied a baby cockroach scuttling along the concrete, and seeing an
opportunity to do some good in the world, went over with my thong
brandished in hand, and killed it. The attendant at the ticketing
station saw the whole thing, and so I looked up at him after my
successful good deed, and gave him a quick, hearty thumbs-up, as if
to say; “Stay strong, brother. Together, we can win this war.”</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">And
then only a few minutes before Luka finally arrived in his car, I saw
the can rolling across the empty car park, dark with the night and
illuminated only by the lonely flood-lights hanging from metal poles
stuck in the ground and rooted there, and I felt a surge of energy
come from inside me.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">The
video below encapsulates that moment, and I consider myself very
lucky to have found the presence of mind at the time to record it, in
all its realness, bare and untouched, I will smile when I remember.
The wind blew that can for two solid minutes, and for two minutes
there was only happiness, nothing but joy in the mix.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Peace,
Taco.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">PS At the end, the person I said "hey man" to was a cop who I realized had been watching suspiciously about ten metres behind me as I lost my mind at this can. He turned out to be cool, exclaiming, "it just kept going didn't it!"</big></span></span><br />
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span></span></div>
<iframe width="640" height="480" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/CGTporJXC04" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-46365808318274301142014-01-26T17:27:00.002-08:002014-01-26T23:30:48.050-08:00Week 4 - Sort of Close to Homeless<big><div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">So
I lost my job, awesome. And no internet. Fine, sure. I've been going
to the State Library a few times a week because they have free
unlimited WiFi and I can't afford an internet cafe, also because last
week it was HOT AS FUCK and the State Library has air con. For these
same two reasons the State Library is also home to... wait no, that's
mean... and the joke hasn't even been set up yet, so only I'm
laughing at this point... but when I make the joke now you'll know
what I was laughing at and you'll think I'm a piece of shit. Maybe I
am? Maybe it's funny anyway... I've gone on too long now. The State
Library is home to... there's a lot of homeless people in there.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">No
they don't live there, but they go there to use the WiFi and cool
down. No I don't know how they have laptops. Yes you're right, maybe
they <span style="font-size: medium;"><i>are</i></span> just guys with beards who smell
bad.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Anyway.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">On
Tuesday I went in with my laptop and sat down at a table with three
guys already sitting around it: a black guy, a hipster looking dude
with glasses, and a man with a dishevelled beard who smelled of stale
smoke. Smelled, a lot. The kind of smell that you don't even realize
it's there until it creeps over to where you're sitting and you
realize it's been a very real and present part of your life for the
last fifteen minutes. You felt something undefinable nibbling at your
conscience, was it that time you let down your housemate's tyres in
2010 because he stole your copy of Futurama Season 1 on DVD? No no!
It's just the man next to you, dreadfully in need of a shower and a
change of lifestyle.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
exchanged furtive glances with the black guy who was sitting directly
to my right, and we both made “I-hate-this” eye movements at the
bearded source of smell sitting to my left, but nothing could be
done. This is a </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i>library</i></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">.
He got up to have another cigarette – this was after about
forty-five minutes, thirty of which I spent with my shirt pulled up
covering my nose. I didn't even realize I was doing it until it
slipped back down and I was hit with another wave. As he rounded the
corner out of the main room of the library and headed outside and out
of sight, I calmly reached down into my bag, pulled out a can of
deodorant (Rexona Original for the sporty hobo) and liberally sprayed
Beardy's chair, much to the delight of my two table-buddies. Black
guy even took off his headphones to share an amused chuckle with me –
that was really interesting too actually, we weren't talking to each
other at all, or communicating by sound, but the simple act of him
taking out his headphones told me that he wanted to share in the joy
of this moment with me. The shared recognition that yes, indeed, that
guy smells like butts. (PUN!)</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">They
are a scary breed, the homeless. The smelly, rotten rejects of our
burgeoning metropolis, spat out by the system and left to sleep
amongst the filth – I, as a human, find them distasteful</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">.
Is that too much? A little heavy on the ole “anti-poor people”
rhetoric there? A little mean? Distasteful itself? “OF COURSE IT IS
YOU PRIVILEGED BOURGEOIS FUCK!” I scream at myself, while ashamedly
feeling my body recoil from the reeking smells of poverty.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">It's
easy – especially, I feel, for me – to forget that a person –
some guy – sitting at a table in the library getting angry at his
computer because, “I didn't WANT to watch the next video I WANTED
TO STAY ON THE LAST ONE FUCKKK!” is not so different from me. It
would do me well to remember that on any day I am only a handful of
bad decisions or unlucky rolls of the dice away from homelessness,
and then it'd be me sitting in that chair, wondering why the air
around me suddenly smells like aerosol deodorant. I only went outside
for a minute...?</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">The
next day at the library I was sitting at a similar table, similar
situation, only this time the bearded man (a different one) was
sitting to my left. He didn't smell, but he </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i>was</i></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>
</i></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">doing
a good job of freaking people out as he beat his index finger down
repeatedly on the mouse button on his laptop. He just kept hitting
it, and hitting it... the table was actually shaking, but he wouldn't
stop. I looked over at him with raised eyebrows as if to say, “really
dude?” and he stared back at me for a frozen second before
returning to his frenzied assault on technology. Giving his machine a
solid beat-down. Aggressive!</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
was re-writing my resume and applying for temping agencies because,
as I've been trying to forget the entire time I've been writing this,
I am unemployed. The library internet was working fine for me, and so
I was in a good mood – a good enough mood to find some humour in
the dishevelled plight of the man to my left. But what if my internet
wasn't working? And what if my situation were even one degree more
dire? Like if I wasn't able to borrow money from parents or friends
to make up the three weeks of limbo between my last paycheck and my
first Centrelink payment? What if I was behind on rent already? What
if I had gotten sick that week? Or had been unluckily mugged? Had a
big phone bill? What if my job was even slightly more important to
me? What if I had lost something I actually cared about as anything
other than a source of income?</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Only
one bad decision away. Only one unlucky roll of the dice. I could so
easily be that guy, sitting at the desk with people around casting
surreptitious glances across the room at me, the crazy man, beating
at his computer with pointed fingers. The internet not working. The
resumes I want to send, trapped. No hope.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
didn't stop laughing – to myself at least – because a guy getting
publicly angry is still funny, I don't care what anyone says. But my
laughter was tempered with cautious self-examination as I imagined a
scene where I too might crack under life's pressure while being
watched by tens of sniggering idiots. Because the others, looking on,
ignorant of the whole situation, are always idiots. And I, the
insane, furious, raging hero, am always, always right.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Do
I smell? I need to wash my clothes tomorrow.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Peace,
Taco.</span></span></div></big>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-41581996605001311832014-01-17T16:48:00.000-08:002014-01-17T18:38:30.440-08:00Week 3 - For Shame, For Shame, For Shame<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><big>Sigh...
okay, so I guess I'm going to tell this story... I remember as the
events transpired – I really don't know whether to say that it's
“something that happened” or “something I did”, so
'transpired' will do – thinking, “I can't WAIT to tell this to
Luka and Blake when I get back to Luka's place, this is going to be
HILARIOUS!” The difference between that and this though is that
this is a blog that <span style="font-size: medium;"><i>anyone</i></span><i> –</i>
potentially TENS of people – can read, with not even an effort made
at anonymity. So before I start this story, I'd just like to say
sorry to my coach, my team, the club and all the fans, I've let you
all down and brought shame upon us. My grandparents, aunties and
uncles, some cousins, and of course my Mum. Dad... if you ever read
this, you'll probably laugh your tits off.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Last
Saturday night Luka, Blake and I drank (Blake doesn't drink but he
was definitely there) a bunch of beers at Luka's house in Heidelburg
and then went for a mission to the shops to buy ice creams around
2:30am. Luka and I rode bikes and pulled Blake along on a skateboard,
and it was a magical evening culminating in the three of us sitting
on top of a storage container in some sort of construction site car
park, overlooking the lights of the city. We went to sleep around
5am.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">At
7:30am Sunday morning I woke up to somewhere between the first and
twentieth missed call from the boss of the four-man cleaning company
I work for: we only have one set of keys to get into the venues we
clean every day, so after our shifts we have to put those keys into a
PO Box in the city for the next day's cleaner to grab. I had
forgotten to do this – not the first time (FUCK FUCK SHIT FUCK) –
and so was now charged with making my way into the CBD to meet with
the Sunday morning cleaner and letting him into the venue, and then
helping him clean to make up for lost time. No pay, no sleep, no
happiness in the world.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
stumbled around Luka's house with extreme anger and volume until I
had gathered up a rough approximation of 'my shit', and then started
on the twenty-ish-minute walk to the train station. When I got there
I arrived upon the grim realization that I needed to take a shit...
BADLY (aside: I have thought long and hard about the wording of this
admission, and rest assured, that particular phrasing was decided
upon with no small amount of consideration). The digital screen
thingo at the station said there were five minutes until the train
would come, I ran down to the service station to see if they had
toilets and the clerk pointed me in the direction of of some public
toilets not on the premises which, as it unfortunately turns out,
were imaginary. I had only one option left. Now I know you are
probably all saying, “but Taco, there are plenty of options for
you... why didn't you go and search for the public toilets? Why
didn't you just hold it until you get to Flinders Street Station,
where toilets are in sheer abundance? Why didn't you offer your
supple young body as a bribe to the clerk in exchange for use of the
staff toilets, to which he surely had a key?” No. I had. Only. One.
Option.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">So
after I picked out a suitable bush in the parklands beside the tracks
and pulled down my pants to relieve myself (I had decided before to
wipe with some empty pages out of my notebook, </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i>como
he hecho muchos tiempos en Bolivia</i></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">),
the lights for the train crossing started ringing. I was in a hurry,
I needed to catch this train, I finished up, grabbed my shi... STUFF!
I GRABBED MY STUFF, and without doing up my belt, ran to the
platform. To find the train. Leaving.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
had to wait forty minutes for the next one to come.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
have done a lot of stupid things while drunk – smashed tram station
glass windows, lit fires, yelled at friends, enemies, made poor
decisions. But I think the most depraved and soulless part of any
drunk's journey from Drink 1 to “below the legal limit” is that
seldom experienced stage in the hours after the last drink, when the
body's wheels are spinning in the mud, trying to begin recovery.
Normally I'm asleep for this part, and my broken mind can flail
around in dreams (interesting fact: I </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i>always</i></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
talk/shout in my sleep if I've been drinking heavily before bed). On
this day though, because I was woken up after only 2.5 hours sleep, I
was fully conscious as my soul struggled desperately to gain a
foothold in sanity... this is my justification anyway. On the tram I
downloaded some porn, but I couldn't really watch it very
effectively, even in the sparsely peopled Sunday-morning service,
because I had no headphones. I lost them. I am a fucking mess, I
know. When I got to Flinders I got off and then walked the three
blocks to the venue I was supposed to meet the other cleaner at and,
noting that I still had about half an hour before anyone would be in
the venue, I... I... ok...</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
… I
really don't know how to frame this, but I DESPERATELY want to
somehow take some of the heat off of myself in the next sentence. I
can't though. There honestly is no way I can possibly talk myself out
of the responsibility for what this is, but I guess I just want to
thank you all at this point, for reading this far, because as much as
you now may want to, I'm sure the present sinking feeling in your gut
is evidence enough to all of us that you are stuck here with me. We
are all past the point of no return and what it is that happens next,
sadly, now feels inevitable.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
jacked off in the toilets.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Not
in</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>to</i></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
the toilet, mind you, just </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>in</b></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
one of the cubicles, but that's neither here nor there. The door was
locked, it happened in under three minutes, but it happened, okay
guys? That's what it is, that's what I does. Did. Have done...
breathe you a sigh of relief.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">When
I told the story later to the guys back at Luka's, Luka had the best
punchline to this part of the story when he said that, “you did
things in exactly the wrong order, you should have taken a shit in
the toilets, and jacked off in the bush.” Now THAT'S comedy. I also
thought of Louis CK's story on episode 111 of the WTF Podcast with
Marc Maron where he bought a $1600 trumpet and only realized he had
made the purchase out of anxiety after he went into a jack-off booth
in times square and came on the case... years later his therapist
told him that masturbation is a great way to relieve anxiety and
stress, so I guess that's what that was... okay, I'll stop talking
about it now.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
cleaned for half an hour until the guy – lovely German dude, a
little quiet but probably just pissed off because I had fucked his
morning – rocked up and we finished cleaning the place together and
went our separate ways. The only real reason I had to go back to
Heidelburg rather than making the much shorter journey to my own
house was that I'd left the keys to my own house with my wallet at
Luka's and it was 10am when I finished cleaning, the pub doesn't open
'til 12.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">On
the train back though, through a random series of events I found
myself talking to a thirty-ish-year-old guy with a Razor Scooter
(AHAHAH! Oh trust me, I KNOW) and a scraggly Ill Bill-type beard who
was on his way from Dandenong (shitty area) to Heidelburg (less
shitty, probably hour-long one-way journey) to take part in a poker
tournament of around 700 people in which he came 14</span></span><span style="color: black;"><sup><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">th</span></span></sup></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
last time (second-best out of those from his Dandenong poker club)
and hoped to make the top ten this time so as to take home some prize
money, 10</span></span><span style="color: black;"><sup><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">th</span></span></sup></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
place offering $200... for some reason I'm good at remembering stats.
He also told me that his two daughters were two of only five
Australian children at their primary school in Dandenong (IMAGINE?!)
and “everyone else at the place is Indian”, so he likes to play,
“Spot the Aussie” with them, but has since been banned from
picking his children up from school, on what he considered to be the
wildly spurious charge of racism.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">That
last part is actually a very funny story in it's own right, but I am
aware, as I'm sure you all are too, of the fact that we definitely
peaked about three or four paragraphs ago and that this is
essentially an epilogue. I couldn't end it back there though could I?
No, no no no no. Very very not.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">So
that's it, that was my Sunday morning. Even as I write this I'm still
not sure whether I'm going to send it out, but then, as I just wrote
that, I thought to myself, “who are you kidding dude, a story like
that? You don't have the humility in your body to deprive yourself of
the attention this could potentially garner.” And you're right, Me,
so up it goes. Into the ether. Oh god, this is it. What the in the
fuck have I done?</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<br />
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Peace,
Taco.</big></span></span></div>
</div>Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-56873809459637151042014-01-12T18:45:00.000-08:002014-01-13T17:46:18.815-08:00Week 2 - Failures<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><big>[Thursday
9/1]</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">And
so continues my week without money, I woke up this morning to the
realization that I have lost my phone charger and need to either:
wait until 4pm when the pub opens and use their charger; or find
around $35 and buy another. This grim realization really happened in
two parts. Last night when I went to bed I saw that I didn't have my
charger on me, but I assumed </span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I'd
left it downstairs yesterday, plugged in from when I was cleaning the
pub in the early arvo. Only once I woke up did I remember that I had
taken it to the library after cleaning with the intention of watching
the new episode of Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee, not because it's
a particularly good show, but because this one features Louis CK...
only, just now, as I write this, I'm remembering that that </span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>actually</i></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
happened on Tuesday, and so my charger is, in all probability, still
downstairs where I left it yesterday. Look at that folks, that shit
was in REAL TIME!</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I'm still poor
though.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">[Friday
10/1]</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
find myself today thinking about my friends from back home in
Adelaide, the guys I came up with (aside: I want to start using that
phrase more often, it's such a solid, </span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>street
</i></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">kind
of phrase and is so fun to say, makes me feel like a </span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>big</b></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><b>
</b></i></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">man.
EH?!). I've been thinking specifically of my friend Sketch, a guy
I've known for the better part of ten years, and what he is up to.
Honestly, what he's up to can probably be fairly described as 'not
much', but I love the guy and I think about him often, even if I only
see him once or twice a year nowadays.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">The
fact that I would so readily sum up the contents of my friend's life
with the phrase 'not much' is hardly a </span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>friendly
</i></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">thing
to do though hey... I mean, I think I'm being honest, and I even
think if pressed, Sketch would probably agree with me. But who am I
to say that my life is going so swimmingly? Who am I to so openly
assess that of someone else?</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I had a terrible
fucking gig last Monday – maybe my worst ever upon reflection;
although when I came off it only felt like a 2, after running over it
again in my mind and experiencing the shame and hurt that emanated
from it for at least two days afterwards, I might re-evaluate it as
absolute bottom of the pile. Zero out of ten. It was at the Cornish
Arms music open mic night, which I've performed at before and done
well at before. I went on after not having done – and barely having
thought about – comedy for two-and-a-half weeks, and decided that
the best thing was to try new stuff mixed with riffs. “I might just
talk.” I remember saying to the bar girl as she asked whether I was
going to try new that night or what the plan was. GENIUS! No.
Idiot-dickhead. That cockiness creeping in always signals impending
doom.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I've
had a long week and a few gigs to reflect on Monday's
terror-performance, and I've been rebuilding my ego and slowly
recovering confidence... a bad gig like that one </span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>really
</i></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">does
something to you – it did something to me. It shook me, and made me
question my position in the comedy scene and my validity as a comic,
it made me wonder whether what I am doing and have been doing is
good, whether I</span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>
deserve</i></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
(a dangerous word) to be here pursuing this or whether I am just
parasitically coasting along on charisma and the hard work of others.
In short, Monday made me take a long, hard look at myself.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">But
now my mind drifts back to Adelaide...</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">The
last time I crossed paths with Sketch was in a shed at a mates place
in Adelaide last January; a bunch of us sitting around smoking bongs.
He started telling some story that I've</span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>
completely </i></span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">forgotten
now about how he took four tabs of acid and had to do something
serious or something something something... I told you I'd completely
forgotten it. But I remember after he'd finished telling it though –
and after I had finished having my mind BLOWN out the back of my head
with amazed laughter – that another of our friends turned to me and
said, “now THAT's the kind of conversation you should be
recording.” We'd had plans to try and turn the experiences of our
group over the years from 2008-2012 into a collection of
stories/book/novella/something of mild interest. Those plans are all
but gone now, or at least, they are fading away into the background
as slowly but surely members of our old team fall away one by one and
we all get older. Until we drift apart.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">The
way that this connects – these memories attached to those times
spent running aimlessly around the streets of my hometown with old
friends I hardly see anymore – to my life now and to the terrible
gig I had last Monday, is that these are the aimless days I am
running from. That old life is the life that I'm afraid of. Much like
the three hours I once spent roaming around Old Port Road in
Semaphore, losing my mind on acid, repeating to myself the terrified
drug-mantra, “it's not hard to be a Fuck Up”, that terrible
comedy-death in front of five tables of underwhelmed strangers gave
me fuel to run my work on. Something to glance at over my shoulder
and think, “that's why I'm moving forward.” I don't want to go
back there because it felt so terrible... or maybe it didn't even
feel THAT terrible while it was happening, but now, as they fade in
the distance, I </span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">know
that those places are nowhere near where I want to be. And who am I
to judge? Well, I'm me, and I know what I want for myself... wait...
hmm... well, I know enough about it to have eliminated SOME options.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">And
so the conclusion? Push on. Accept that these bad experiences, these
deaths, these little failures – overwhelming though they may seem
at the time – are necessary, and ultimately beneficial. As
certainly as I understand on an intellectual level that I need to
keep working and improving my craft – in comedy and in writing, and
anything else I do – to get to a place where I can sustain my life
through it, I also understand that sometimes I get lazy, and so
sometimes the hot hammer of failure needs to come down and put the
fear in me. That wild fear that drives the machine, and keeps me
running towards the light.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">[Monday
13/11]</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Today
I checked my bank balance: $103.30 in the negative.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Yep,
still poor.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<br />
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Peace,
Taco.</big></span></span></div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-44336532462684736332014-01-06T16:26:00.000-08:002014-01-17T18:31:22.131-08:00Week 1: Finding Falls<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><big>The
first bad thing that happened to me in 2014 happened at 1650 hours on
the 4</span><sup><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">th</span></span></sup><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">
of January. I was pulled over and fined $289 by Leading Senior
Constable T. Asquith (great name) for speeding. He had a moustache.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">The
first three and a bit days of this year have been some of the
greatest days of my life, as well as the last few days of last year.
In mid-November, Alice and Bella, two girls I met in the second half
of 2013, asked me to come with them to Falls in Byron Bay and at
first I was tentative – I am CONSTANTLY without money but am,
somehow, meant to be saving for my trip to Europe in July. “No no
no no no” ran my brain's automatic response system. But after
asking myself the question “what else will I possibly be doing with
myself on New Year's?” I told them I would come, a prudent aversion
to sadness willing me to leave the previous question unanswered.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
don't really want to recap the events of the last few days, because
I'm not excited right now, and the best time for me to tell stories
is when I'm on a role and they seem to come out tied together like a
magician's string of coloured handkerchiefs. Coming home in the car
though – holy GODDAMN we drove back from Byron to Melbourne in like
28 hours after waiting in line in the FILTHY sweat and dust of the
carpark exodus for four hours and then having a five-minute swim in
the ocean... coming home in the car I started thinking of my life in
Melbourne and the direction it is heading in. I started thinking
about comedy specifically, and about everything that I want to
achieve this year: Adelaide Fringe, Melbourne Comedy Festival,
another comedy trip to Brisbane, France, Edinburgh Fringe, Spain...
the only way I can ever hope to cram all of this into one year is to
attack this thing head on.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">For
the four days that we were at Falls; camped out in tents surrounded
by beautiful people that quickly became like a small town – for
those four days, I felt invincible. I felt like I could do anything,
and I don't know how or why, but now that I've accessed that feeling
like the greatest, most charismatic part of myself, I need to have it
back for always.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">It's
not funny. It's not even that interesting. I just feel (felt?)
fan-fucking-tastic. Maybe I should pose myself a question, because I
don't know whether just telling myself “I did it before, I can do
it again!” is really going to be enough to maintain the level of
excellence I felt within myself for those four days in Byron Bay. The
question the question the question... how to bottle that euphoria and
take it home with me. I am home again now, and I can already feel it
slipping away. I was loud. I was happy. I was laughing. I was
smiling. I was charismatic. I was fun. Maybe the reason people go to
festivals like that is so that they – we – can have our chance at
unlocking that secret door to the best part of ourselves, and letting
it out for a few days while we still know how. But I want it BACK. I
KNOW I can get it back.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Somehow...</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Last
year, during the Christmas party for staff, residents, and regulars
at Station 59 (the Richmond pub I currently live above) a
crossdresser named Mark (or on other days, Cassie) told me in a
drunken slur, “I hate your guts mate, I'm cutting your internet off
as soon as I get upstairs!” This would seem an absurd threat, if it
weren't for the fact that due to the phone line running off of the
street and into his room, Mark/Cassie actually does control the
internet in our building. He wields this arbitrary power like an iron
rod (whoops... PHALLIC!!) of injustice and forces everyone else in
the building to pay extortionary monthly prices for use of his
rodINTERNET!.. penis</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">He
really did plan to cut off my internet... and that's exactly what he
did.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">A
few days prior to this we had had a heated exchange in the hall where
I like to think I – and I'll puff my chest out for this one –
“PUT HIM IN HIS PLACE MO'FUKKA!” he l</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">eft
me the following note:</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i> </i></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i>"Taco,<br /> Here
are the rules... Pay on or before the 10th of the month, or the
internet will be cut off and never restored, PLUS come at me with
that attitude you did today I will cut you off for good. I don't
care if you think that is fair or not, but this is our new contract.</i></span></span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i> Mark<br /> oneday
[SIC] late and bye bye internet, suggest you start looking for your
own."</i></span></span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
have since stuck this note to my wall, in front of my laptop and
scrawled over it in pen three words of warning:</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><i>“NEVER
BECOME SAD”</i></span></span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">This
is the other side of the coin. For days after that infuriating defeat
at the hands of someone who I am SOOOOOO tempted to call my Mortal
Enemy, I went around telling everyone what I was going to do to him
when I got back. “This is war!” I spitefully proclaimed. How
feeble of me, how petty, how just like him – I can hear that spite
in my voice, even now as I try to banish it. But at Falls, none of
that. I didn't think about it once – the dreadful mess of a
situation waiting for me back at home when all the joy was over, and
I sit amidst that situation right now. I am currently accessing the
internet via my phone; I paid $20 for 1.25GB of extra data this
month, and I know I know, that's a terrible fucking deal... if Falls
has taught me anything though, (and the debts to my friends and the
negative symbol next to my bank balance tell me that it really has to
have) it is that there is no place in a happy life for anger, spite,
and negativity.</span></span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Getting
ticketed for speeding was the first thing to bring me back down off
of m</span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">y
cloud and god did I hate it, I hated it so much. I DEFINITELY
deserved it, and that made me hate it even more. It made me remember
that the high I was riding couldn't last forever, but after moping
for a while I realized that didn't make me feel any better either.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Smiling
is free. And being happy. And laughing. It's all part of a choice.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">I
don't quite know yet how to actively make that choice, but at Falls
Festival 2013/14, I had it clasped firmly in my hands. Now, my only
job is to get it back.</span></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
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</div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Peace,
Taco.</span></div>
</div>
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Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-63440799163170107512013-12-01T16:51:00.002-08:002013-12-01T17:04:53.402-08:00First Day of Summer<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm; page-break-before: always;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: black;">It's
summer, that's right. “Thirty-seven today”; the opening line of
every work-conversation I've had this morning. “Fuuuuuck! I'm
definitely heading to the beach!”<br /> “Lucky you mate! That's
what I'd be doing!”<br /> “Yep!”<br /> “THIRTY-SEVEN! They
say...”<br /> Yep... the weather sure is interesting.<br /><br />Yesterday
I woke up at 8:30am to the sound of my phone buzzing and ringing
through the still, hungover air at Thomas McMahon's lovely apartment
in East Melbourne – I had no idea where I was. On Saturday once I'd
finished work, I'd forgotten to take the keys for the venues I clean
and put them in the PO Box for the next person to use, so now I was
being rammed upright and forced out of bed. Three hours sleep. Still
drunk. Acid Hangover. It was already hot, but I bustled out of the
house and onto the tram, down to Meatballs, put on No Woman No Cry
over the speakers, and started cleaning until Kim got there, I
realized I wasn't needed, and dazed, headed back to my room in
Richmond. I was in far too good a mood.<br /><br />By the time I got back
it was getting hotter, my hangover was kicking in, I remembered a
sandwich (realistically, it was two pieces of bread with a bunch of
cheese in the middle, chucked in the sandwich-maker for thirty
seconds until I said “I HAVE TO GO!”) that Tom's girlfriend made
me, and realized I would need to brush my teeth. I did that. I had a
shower. I watched a bunch of South Park episodes – drifting in and
out of sticky consciousness... Phil called, “do you wanna go to the
007 Exhibition?” In truth, at that point, not particularly, but I
had to do </span><span style="color: black;"><i>something</i></span><span style="color: black;">,
so I agreed.<br /><br />A few hours later and the 007 Exhibition plan was
off, I waddled down to the air-conditioned pub to see what was going
on, 4:30pm. All the regulars were hanging around, playing pool,
drinking, smoking out the back. Andrea told me about a party in the
park to farewell some Scottish chick who had been denied a long-term
visa and had to go home on Monday, “I have NO money” (-$60 on the
bank balance). We bought some 'John Smith Extra Smooth' beers – a
case – that had passed their 'best before' date in March – they
cost $30. I owe Jake ten dollars from that purchase. The beers, as
promised, were Extra Smooth, and although being extra warm as well,
proved the hit of the party once we got there. I shotgunned one, some
old guy (he was forty, whatever) shotgunned two... or was it three?
Jake did one. We played drinking games with cards until the sun set
at 9pm.<br /><br />On the way home after being abandoned by our lift
without notice, we (Jake, Brett, and I) ran across the train tracks
and were stopped by police and our details taken down. “Look mate,
at this stage, we're gonna have a talk about it, but you'll probably
be getting a fine in the mail.” Cunts. As one text correspondent
put it when I told her the news,<br /> “I hate that, say yes or no
don't be a tease!”<br />Don't we all? Well I know a fine is coming,
even if neither of our valiant Mr Protective Servicemen (not even
real fucking cops, just chumps, with chump titles) could decide
for us. I like to imagine that as they went back to their posts to
consume the pizza that had arrived for them while they were fighting
crime, they were struck simultaneously with a crippling sense of
shame in their pointless actions, and so when their steaming-hot
cheese-covered treats touched the rooves of their respective mouths
and the skin sizzled and gave way, they knew, in that moment, that
justice had truly been done.<br /><br />The three of us got back to
Station 59 just as Stiff (Steff, she's a Kiwi) was closing the bar.
Macca was there too, and we all sat out the back and drank Mountain
Goat until the jug ran too low for Stiff to top my drink up while I
wasn't looking, and I went upstairs to bed. There's not much of a
point to this story, other than to let you all, who care so so much,
know about how I spent my Sunday. Solid experience overall, full of
the trappings of any exciting or woeful day, but gladly it was
neither. I don't know what else to say, or what I could say even, to
polish the memory of my first day of summer 2013/14 so that when I
look back it might stand out amongst all the other days that shine
and blend into a radiant, sepia-lit history. There </span><span style="color: black;"><i>is</i></span><span style="color: black;">
nothing else, so I guess that day will just fade in as the distance
grows, lost in the rear vision mirror.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</span></span></span></div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-43847192863886842892013-11-29T20:23:00.000-08:002013-11-29T20:23:00.485-08:00Saturday and Serene<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm; page-break-before: always;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: black;">I
love Saturdays, when the expanses of the weekend seem to stretch out
before your feet like an endless desert, or a road, paved with
possibilities. The sun is shining down on the tarmac on Church
Street, just outside my window. Today I figured out how to roll my
makeshift blinds up with the sheet that also hangs down over my
window. And let the stiff breeze blow. Sunlight. Summer.
Saturday.<br /><br />This time of the afternoon is the best, when plans
are like freshly poured concrete, still uncertain, setting. I'm so
calm right now, look how many commas I'm using. Descriptive words.
Short, broken sentences to describe only feelings, rather than the
actions that traditionally accompany them. I have about four hours
all to myself now, and I couldn't be happier. Maybe I'll meditate a
little? Maybe I'll write more – I've already written about five
pages of notes and bits today. Maybe I'll sit here and tap out words
on my laptop. Browse YouTube or Reddit, or maybe I'll just fall
asleep. I could do some reading... my room is my world, and this
world is my oyster.<br /><br />I love the feeling of the sun shining down
on my skin, light brown as it is... that's something interesting,
isn't it. I have a strange rift in the way I see myself as a 'white'
person... that phrase is so useless anyway. I mean, there really is
very little pressure in Australian – or at least inner-city
Melbourne – society to identify with a particular racial group. I
feel like a white person, insofar as I presumably know what a white
person feels like. I don't feel like a Latino, or whatever else
people might think I look like when they first recognize that my skin
colour is markedly different to their, and my complexion too.
'Racially ambiguous' is the term I've used thousands of times over
and over in my head. I feel white, but that's not what my skin is, so
what does that make me?<br /><br />This is not a burning question in my
head, and one that even if it does require an answer – and I'm not
even sure it does to be honest – doesn't require one in the
immediate here-and-now. That's thinking for another time. Maybe in
America, when I eventually get over there, my skin colour will become
a more important fixture in my identity... but even then, as soon as
I open my mouth, I'm sure my accent will wipe any presuppositions
about ethnicity completely out of anyone's mind.<br /><br />I had this
idea for when I go to Spain: I want to be </span><span style="color: black;">forced
to practice speaking Spanish when I get over there, otherwise I'm
sure I'll just fall back into the easy habit of speaking English with
everyone I meet, and not improving my Spanish skills whatsoever. So
my plan is to tell</span><span style="color: black;">
everyone I meet – especially if I end up working on a farm for a
few weeks – that I </span><span style="color: black;"><i>am</i></span><span style="color: black;">
from Australia, but that I'm Aboriginal, and that in Australia,
Aboriginals don't speak English, they speak a different language, and
as such, I can only communicate with you all in Spanish, because I
don't speak English at all, sorry. I feel like there is a lot of
merit and potential to this plan (much like my Saturday afternoon...
OOOOOH POTENTIAL TIE-IN!), the only sticking point would lie in my
ability to Commit to the Bit. I am such an habitual bit-bailer. I
bail from bits. I find the idea of even doing a bit at all so silly
and hilarious that I crack up as soon as the bit-doing business has
begun. I would have to commit to this bit, and I would have to commit
hard.<br /><br />I'm sure I'd tell them after a while, maybe at the end
of our engagement. I'd have to... it'd be hilarious I'm certain.<br /><br />I
just got a message so I think I'm going to stop here... reading,
that's probably what I'll start out with. If I fall asleep from
there, so be it. Today is Saturday, the day so good, they wrote a
catchy song about it. Whoopee.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</span></span></span></div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-68314169930339645142013-11-19T16:00:00.001-08:002013-11-19T16:00:22.573-08:00Bullshit<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm; page-break-before: always;">
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">Fuck.
Cunt. I just wrote a really good post about last night at the
Rochester and treating running a room the same way I treat comedy in
terms of rates of improvement and cultivating it like a skill and
things that Beau said and I burnt him really good too and I framed it
by talking about my new phone that I got yesterday and I was pretty
happy with it like happy enough to put it on Facebook and link it
from the Rochester page too which is what I wanted to do yesterday
when I was going to the Rochy I thought “hey wouldn't it be cool if
I wrote something tomorrow about tonight's night and linked it from
the Rochy page and then it'd all be cool and happy” and it almost
was but them MY LAPTOP CRASHED GET FUCKED CUNT FUCK!!<br /><br />Ugh...
not happy. Whatever.<br /><br />I need a shower.</span></div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-55498110716421477112013-11-18T20:01:00.003-08:002013-11-18T20:01:56.861-08:00Maintain Maintain Maintain<div style="page-break-before: always;">
FUCK!
It really is such a struggle. Maintaining... keeping up with this
blog. How does Herring do it... a post every day FOR OVER TEN
YEARS!!? The man must be half insane. Half insane, and half of the
most grounded, sane type of person that exists in our world.<br /><br />I'm
telling myself, now and for the next however many years, that the
reason he's able to keep up that blog every day, is because he's
forty-something years old and doesn't live the same lifestyle as me.
But honestly, he's a comic too... I'm sure he knows about beers in
the night and late afternoon hangovers piercing through the will to
live... I'm sure he knows about the lack of motivation that comes in
cycles coupled with thrilling, manic spurts of insane energy... I'm
sure he knows about the creeping, questioning uncertainty, every day,
every day, “do I really want to do this?” But he keeps going. Ten
years, not a single chink in the armour.<br /><br />Maybe I need to read
more of his posts, maybe they aren't as emotionally involved as mine,
I <i>know</i>
that he tries to tell a story from the day before, rather than
succumbing to the narcissistic urge to endlessly introspect –
narcissistic, and also oh-so-tiring.<br /><br />I just seem to run out of
juice. What could I have written about yesterday that would have been
worthwhile and maybe turned into a 600-word story? Well, I caught a
cab home with SCumming – mine and Luka's new nickname for new comic
Simon Cumming, although I personally prefer Scummers, we'll see how
it goes – that was eventful. The cab, not the words in between the
hyphens... GOOD GOD LOOK HOW I SIDETRACK MYSELF. There really is no
hope.<br /><br />I need to go to the toilet now, as is common with the
minutes just after waking up... I had some wack dreams last night...
dreams in which my brother owned a pistol and was arrested for
shooting someone on a soccer pitch. I had to defend him from the
investigations, led by Richie. I bought a phone from a service
station and changed my voice to something else so that I could
pretend to be someone with information – a witness or something.
Real family shit. Insanity, my brother would never shoot
anyone.<br /><br />Dreams last night, dreams today, this world is an
ever-evolving blur in front of my eyes.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-40279924735856865682013-11-13T17:47:00.002-08:002013-11-13T17:47:44.928-08:00Open Mic Drive<div style="page-break-before: always;">
I haven't been writing in here every day AT ALL, for the last few
weeks. I need to get my motivation levels back up again... as I lay
in bed a few hours ago listening to the new Opie and Anthony Podcast
– 'The Best of Patrice O'Neal' – on repeat, I found myself
wondering at my recent lack of motivation. “Why have I suddenly
fallen into this slump?” But then again, I found myself wondering
the opposite, in equal measure: “What reason <i>is</i> there to get
up in the morning?”<br /><br />This question needs an answer, but the
answer has to come from somewhere, and the best kind of somewhere I
know of is me, so here it is.<br /><br />OPEN MIC DRIVE!<br /><br />Luka,
Blake and I are starting a podcast called 'Open Mic Drive' (it was
between that and 'Open Drive Life'; the title being a nod to the well
known 'Open Mic Life' starring Doug Gordon and formerly Russell
Wigginton, now Dilruk Jayasinha) about... well I don't really know
what it's going to be about yet. It's going to be completely
different from any other podcast, and I think people are going to
love the idea... the basic premise of the actual audio is that the
three of us, who share rides home at least a couple nights a week
after gigs, will record our post-gig conversations and take the best
bits to form an episode every week. If Luka gives someone else a lift
home, then they'll be the guest for that week. If we pick up a
hitchhiker, they can be a special commentator. We'll listen to music
and talk about life and yell at people out the windows and rag on
Blake for not having a dad... OH THE POSSIBILITIES!!<br /><br />I feel
though, that when we first announce the podcast, there will be waves
and parades of eye-rolling throughout the open mic community – and
so there should be. There are so many fucking comedians doing
podcasts out there – funny and talented people all – but it's
just too much. There's so much information to wade through, with only
the faint promise of stumbling across something truly amazing. The
next WTF? Unlikely... with every new podcast the herd gets thicker,
and harder to traverse.<br /><br />So what of us? What of 'Open Mic
Drive'. What of the hypocrisy of railing against the never-ending
tide of podcasts battering our screens and making it harder to find
gold, only to join said tide and hope to find some arbitrary point of
difference to stand out from the crowd? What of it indeed.<br /><br />I
know this sounds like blatant own-horn-tootery, but have faith, our
podcast will be different. I can't tell you why yet, but I'm excited,
friends. This is now my reason to get up in the morning... well, one
morning a week, anyway. I'm excited right now. Yes. Yes. Open Mic
Drive Yes.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-73132183900078247792013-11-09T23:18:00.001-08:002013-11-09T23:18:02.034-08:00Something that Happened Yesterday<div style="page-break-before: always;">
Yesterday
while driving down the Great Ocean Road we stopped at a fish and chip
shop in Apollo Bay. The choice was between two shops; one with a blue
exterior – the kind of blue you would usually associate with a
seafood place, and I would usually associate with bad smells – and
one with a bright red (if I remember correctly) exterior. The red one
looked bigger, and more popular (to me at least – there were no
people in either). Phil said we should go in the blue one, so we did
that.<br /><br />The guy at the counter sounded Russian to me, although
Phil was adamant his accent was Greek. We made jokes at his face as
we ordered, he told us that “no, the sauce is not free”. He said
it in his accent though, so it wasn't that clear. Between us we only
had fourteen dollars, so we decided to get eight dollars worth of
chips and a piece of fish worth six – that's fourteen all up...
MATHS!<br /><br />The guy told us we could wait outside, maybe, if we
were lucky, he'd bring our food out.<br /><br />Earlier at the petrol
station... OH MY GOD! We spent about half an hour with our petrol
gauge on ZERO, flying through the hills and winding roads next to the
Great Ocean, praying to non-specific gods that we would make it the
remaining 35... 19... 15... 10... 5 kilometres to Apollo Bay without
running out of gas. HEARTS BEATING THROUGH CHESTS!! We made it though
– goodliest of good fortunes – and rolled into the petrol
station... we got some petrol and made some jokes and laughed a lot
and one of us said something funny to the attendant who laughed with
us too – she was having a great time. Then just as we were about to
get in and head to the fish and chip shop (still undecided at this
point on blue or red), I quipped that Phil had said he was going to
get some cigarettes. I was half joking, half being serious because
maybe I wanted one too OKAY!!!? So we got some cigs too.<br /><br />Because
of all of the previous things together, we found ourself sitting
outside the blue fish and chip shop, smoking cigs (one each) and not
saying anything because we were both insanely tired. I only half
finished mine before realizing I didn't really want it, and walked
the ten metres to put it in the bin after consciously fighting the
urge to flick it away like a James Dean lookalike – I even said
words to that effect as I walked back, glad at having made the right
choice.<br /><br />Two minutes later when Phil finished his cig, he DID
flick it. Right onto the pavement. Motherfucker. I picked his up too,
squashed as it was after being butted on the table, and ferried it
over to the bin to be disposed of responsibly. Because I'm a good
bloke. Okay?<br /><br />And then we got our chips, brought out by the
Greek/Russian man (probably Greek) and took them, with the piece of
fish that was hidden underneath, to the car. We ate most of it save
three or four little chips at the end, drove for another few hours,
and at 1am, arrived in Melbourne.<br /><br />That was something that
happened yesterday.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-198987196245394662013-11-07T22:51:00.001-08:002013-11-07T22:51:28.020-08:00My Homework from 'A Brief Guide to World Domination'<div style="page-break-before: always;">
Today
I am in Adelaide, and like most days in Adelaide, I am spending this
one at my parents' house doing nothing much and essentially waiting
for something to happen. Is this what I want for myself? To wait? I
don't know, that wasn't a rhetorical question.<br /><br />Who do I want
to be? I read something a while ago called 'A Brief Guide to World
Domination' by some guy whatever who cares, which asked two questions
that it said should be at the core of everything we do:</div>
<ol>
<li>“What
do you really want to get out of life?”<br />
</li>
<li>“What
can you offer the world that no one else can?”<br />
</li>
</ol>
Tough
stough... (just a little spelling joke there, before I start getting
serious)<br /><br />Okay, so number one. What do “I” want to get...
out of... life... what do I want to get out of life? No holding back.
Okay, what I want to get out of life, I think is... everything. No.
Okay. I want to get everything that I want. I want to be able to have
everything that I want at any given moment accessible to me as soon
as possible. But what do I want? I think I want people to pay
attention to, and like me. Pretty shallow huh...<br /><br />I'm sure I
can do better than that – the danger here though is <i>trying
</i>to
dress that fairly base desire just laid down there in careful
rationalizations that make them look more altruistic... well I want
the people that I care about to be happy. That makes me happy. But
then, I <i>do </i>want
their happiness to somehow involve me, like maybe I want people to be
happy, BECAUSE of me. I want to make people happy. Yes. I don't want
people to just <i>be
</i>happy
at random, I want to be responsible for peoples' happinesses – as
many and as great as possible. That's right. Me! Taco!<br /><br />That
sounds realistically selfish while still being acceptable, doesn't
it? The oft-quoted eulogism, “all he wanted to do was make people
happy”, I feel can be translated to this selfish desire.<br /><br /><br />
<br />
<ol>
<li>“What
do you really want to get out of life?”<br />“Well, Mr So-And-So
Psychiatrist, I would like to be, through my own actions, personally
responsible for as many peoples' happiness as possible. And it'd be
nice if they knew about it too.”<br />
</li>
</ol>
Now
what can I offer the world that no one else can? Fuck me, really?
Ugh... okay... my blood? Fingerprints? This word -
“Quertykoacquatlophyx”... ?<br /><br />Stop being an idiot, idiot.<br /><br />I
honestly have no idea... okay, so currently, what I want to do with
my life in the long term is I want to be a stand-up comedian. I guess
that implies that I believe I have an unique point of view that no
one else can offer the world. That doesn't really feel accurate
though. Louis CK – arguably the best (Most original? Funniest? Most
successful?) comedian in the world right now has quite a few AMAZING
jokes about how if you're in your early twenties you are the most
worthless kind of person and have nothing to offer the world. (“If
you're twenty... okay... <i>fine</i>...
we'll see.”) As degrading as that sounds, I can't help it from
sounding pretty reasonable too. I have potential, but that's it.<br /><br />But
<i>is</i>
that it? Potential? Eugh... Is the answer to question two that I have
an unique potential, different from that of anyone else? I am now,
being as I am at my wit's end with this question, going to attempt to
unashamedly list what I perceive to be my positive attributes that I
might better understand the nature of this disgusting 'potential'
that is apparently so important to my happiness:<br />
<ul>
<li>I
am good at communicating my thoughts<br />
</li>
<li>I
am driven and work hard<br />
</li>
<li>I
am generally likeable (queue sarcastic jeering)<br />
</li>
<li>I
am funny when given the opportunity ie. When I am sufficiently
comfortable in a social situation<br />
</li>
<li>I'm
pretty good at mental arithmetic, and making lists<br />
</li>
</ul>
That's
all, I think. I don't actually have any real tangible <i>skills</i>
that have been cultivated or worked on, these are pretty much all
either basic character traits, or things that I have developed over
years interacting with people socially. But I guess the skill that
I'm cultivating right now is stand-up comedy, which, for the
uninitiated, is definitely a skill make no mistake.<br /><br />So I guess
that's it:<br />
<ol start="2">
<li>“What
can you offer the world that no one else can?”<br />“My potential,
apparently, whatever that is.”<br />
</li>
</ol>
<br />
<br />What
is probably the most damning detail here though is that even after
being so obviously affected by the two questions posed by 'A Brief
Guide to World Domination', I couldn't be bothered remembering, or
even looking up, the guy's name who wrote it to put in my blog. God
damn it. I guess I'll have to reconcile myself with the fact that as
endeavouring to bring happiness and fulfilment into other peoples'
lives is an anonymous and largely thankless endeavour. But then WHERE
DOES MY SELFISH PART GET TO COME IN??!<br /><br />I guess, really, I only
wanted to be famous.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.<br /><br /><br />[if anyone wants to read the actual thing I'm referencing here:<br /><a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/files/attachments/40787/worlddomination.pdf">http://www.psychologytoday.com/files/attachments/40787/worlddomination.pdf</a>]Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-79200464351817956172013-11-06T18:50:00.000-08:002013-11-06T18:50:45.676-08:00Pump the Brakes<div style="page-break-before: always;">
After
what I wrote yesterday, I don't really know what to say today... I
wasn't even going to post it because it felt too inward-looking and I
felt like no one would care about what felt like the whingeing
life-updates of a megalomaniac. But people loved it, and now I feel
really good about having written it, like, way better than I felt
when I posted it yesterday. And that's strange as well, because
apparently I only judge the worth of something based on other
peoples' reactions to it.<br /><br />Never mind that though, tomorrow
morning I'll be getting on a plane bound for Adelaide and then
spending the day hopefully catching up with a few people if they have
time for me. Then Phil and I will jumping in his car and driving to
my grandparents place in Lucindale, and then the day after,
completing the drive back to Melbourne. Phil is moving here, finally,
and as is the general theme of my life at the moment – more so than
usual – I don't know what to expect.<br /><br />I feel like he and I
are in very different places at the moment, and I'm worried that once
we are again living in the same city our differences in lifestyle
will become clear and we'll drift apart. This is where I have to
start applying what I was writing about yesterday though; so I could
either worry that we are going to drift apart, or I could just live
my life the same way I've been living it for the past eighteen months
– the way that seems to be working for me – and make time for
Phil around that... think of him. What does he want to get out of
moving here? What can I bring to the table to make his and everyone
else in that crew's lives in this city better?<br /><br />I really need
to stop stressing so much about what everyone around me is going to
think about the things that I do, whatever they are. I need to relax.
I need to go with the flow. I need to stop predetermining my actions.
I need to get out of my head. For the next week, I'm going to try and
make this blog be the retelling of a story from the previous day,
rather than intense introspection. Goal, set.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-4882444605165011912013-11-05T22:42:00.000-08:002013-11-05T22:42:00.476-08:00Hard Things Are Hard<div style="page-break-before: always;">
Right
now, for maybe the first time ever, I don't have a girl in my life,
or any sort of open romantic attachment to anyone. Also,
coincidentally, this week I feel strange.<br /><br />I think I need to
maintain this feeling... well, not maintain it, not cultivate it and
hope for it to stay, because it doesn't feel good, it's not a
positive feeling and it certainly isn't giving me energy at all. But
I need to actively feel it, force myself to feel it. For my show '36
Hours' that I've been writing for the festivals I'm doing next year,
I wrote the line;<br /> “Once I decided to find the pain inside me
that I'd been trying to run from and just experience it, I found
that there actually wasn't that much there – at least, not so much
that I couldn't handle it.”<br />I was really happy with myself the
day I wrote that line, I think it speaks to something very true in my
life, and hopefully in the lives of other people. I feel like it's
something that I need to keep in mind right now.<br /><br />What is
probably going on here, is that for as long as I have been running
around and chasing girls, I've been simply trying to distract myself
from my essential loneliness. Oh... I mean, I'm not <i>actually</i>
lonely... maybe that would be better as, my <i>fear</i>
of being lonely. I'm afraid of being alone, of feeling alone, of
feeling sadness that comes from being alone, so I try to plug that up
with temporary human distractions, but then those people end up
turning away from me because they know or at least sense that I am
doing just that: using them as a distraction. It's a pretty selfish
way to be, but it's not such a bad thing, I don't think. I'm not
beating myself up over it, I just think it's important to acknowledge
that that's what I've been doing so that I can put a stop to it.<br /><br />I
read something else yesterday with the title, “I don't think
marriage is for me”. Classic mislead – the article was about this
guy who's been married for a couple years admitting that he'd been a
little selfish in his marriage, and that marriage isn't for him, it
should never be <i>for</i>
you, it should be <i>for</i>
the other person. That goes with all relationships... but I think
I've been living and thinking of my relationships with everyone
around me in terms of what they can do for me, and that's why they
continue to become stale and unfulfilling.<br /><br />So what can I do
from here, right now? Other than say, “I pledge to be more mindful
of other people and to treat others with respect in my interactions
with them every day.” Wouldn't that be be hilariously hollow... I
don't know, like practically, I don't know. I don't know what this
means or how I can change my actions to reflect this new
realization.<br /><br />I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't
know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know
I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know...<br /><br />I
wonder how many times I would have to write that before the letters
would line up with the top line again? It'd be different once
published on my blog, because the margin is different. I've stopped
introspecting now, I guess I thought it all sounded way too
hard.<br /><br />I'm trying guys. I promise.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-52398953083484076332013-11-03T17:02:00.001-08:002013-11-03T17:02:03.306-08:00I'm Naked (not a metaphor)<div style="page-break-before: always;">
The
thing about milk crates – besides their unparalleled usefulness as
footrests or for carrying various cargo including milk – is that
they are shaped in such a way that while being very easy to grip,
also makes them uncomfortable. The ridges that make them so
convenient to grip onto also serve to dig deep into the skin, and the
same goes for when they are being used as a footrest. As such, when I
think that I'm going to be resting my feet for any sort of long
period on the milk crate that lives under my desk in my room – for
example, if I plan on writing a lengthy piece for this blog – I am
always sure to put socks on, to stop the thing from growing painful
on the soles of my feet. This fact, along with the current time
(11:33am, Monday morning) should reasonably account for my current
state of dress, being as I am completely naked sitting at my desk,
save for a pair of comfy, white socks.<br /><br />I have been dressed
today before now... I had work at six at Meatballs, so I got up at
five thirty or so and got dressed and got on the tram and went down
there, because you're not allowed on the tram without a shirt on.
Most of the other early morning types were out, the ones I recognize
from my three or four trips before sunrise every week. High-Vis Vest,
Fat Man, no crazies because those people at least afford themselves
the luxury of sleeping in on weekdays, and me with my clothes <i>on</i>,
rubbing sleep out of my eyes.<br /><br />After work though it was
straight back home to comfy bed again, and since I haven't had a
shower yet, I divested myself of my slightly-dirty work clothes
before lying down for my nap. Nothing exciting has happened to me yet
today, and it's midday already. Nothing exciting happened to me
yesterday either – the day was spent downstairs in the pub with the
local crew drinking beer and playing pool all afternoon. That in
itself is fairly exciting though, not as an event, but as a prospect
– being able to throw away an entire day and consign it to nothing
is the most exciting thing in the world most days, and I did it
yesterday, although admittedly that time I <i>did
</i>still
have to put on pants.<br /><br />I have deleted SO MUCH of this post,
paragraphs that you people will never get to read, because I have
deemed them, in the shortest minutes, completely unreadable and
worthless, and so purged them from existence. You might even say I
<i>hate</i>
them. I do, and you very well might say that.<br /><br />I can't help it,
you know. Other than being naked, there's nothing else today that's
really captured my imagination, which is sad, because it's not
Monday's fault, as much as everyone usually seems so eager to cast
blame on this poor loser of the week. Hate Mondays? No, you're just
bored with your life I think... Mondays are great when taken
advantage of. Today is not one of those Mondays for me though, or it
hasn't been so far, anyway. Right now I am going to put on my gym
gear and get on the tram to Fitzroy to make an attempt at salvaging
something from this grey situation. Tonight I have a set at Alan and
Sofie's room in Collingwood, and then after that I'm doing a glassy
shift at the Workers. So there are a few points of interest on the
horizon. Nothing to jump up and down about though, so I won't be
doing that.<br /><br />Another reason I won't be jumping up and down is
that it's not a good idea to do that when you're naked, how's that
for a mental image? Grim? Unnecessary? I'm not surprised, but that's
what I'm going to leave you with.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-540481167117347659.post-86875549505340645772013-11-01T22:40:00.003-07:002013-11-01T22:40:30.654-07:00A Well Made Drum<div style="page-break-before: always;">
For
the first time ever, I have a costume. Well, okay, it's a drum... but
HEYFUCKYOU this is the first time I've ever been ready to go to a
costume party. Finally, I won't be that loser who didn't dress up
because he 'didn't care' or he 'thinks costumes are lame' or his
'skin becomes inflamed when exposed to most fabrics' – lame excuses
every single one, and if anyone pulls that shit on <i>me</i>
tonight they are getting a smack upside their head-bone. Fuck all you
hoes. I have a drum.<br /><br />So what I did was I found a bucket that
had been sitting outside my room for like ooooooh fuckennnn... two
weeks? Not a big bucket, it's a modest affair, like maybe something
you would get five kilograms of lard in from a grocery store for the
grossly overweight. It has a handle, which I was unable after some
effort to remove, but that shouldn't be a problem. I have tape in my
room always, so when I saw the bucket my mind made the connection
between those two items and the weird slouch-hat thingo I have never
worn that's in my wardrobe and went 'BEATNICK'. Oh fuck yes.<br /><br />I
tried a few different materials for the skin of the drum before I hit
upon a winner: old shirt? Not able to be pulled tight enough for good
sound, plus looks dirty, plus can't fasten well and is too bulky –
shit. Plastic bag? Tightness problem solved but has too much give in
it as a material to make a good skin, doesn't POP when struck, as
drum should – shit. Paper bag? Good skin, slightly weak, but can be
taped over to make strong, plus as added bonus can draw peace symbol
on with pen – YES!<br /><br />DRUM!!<br /><br />The bottom of the bucket
(it's white, I think I found it and used it to wash my brushes in
terps when I was painting the room) is still showing out of the
bottom of the skin (I used a brown paper bag in the end) and the
sticky tape looks kind of tacky when it reflects the light. But my
drum makes a nice POPPING sound when I hit it, just like my old bongo
used to. The idea for the costume ACTUALLY came from Phil – I was
going to use the hat as the foundation for a French Philosopher
outfit, but he suggested Ned Flanders' dad from that tiny cut-scene
in The Simpsons: “Ned spilled ink all over my POEMS MAAAAAN!”<br /><br />The
best.<br /><br />So now all that's left to do is figure out how to
incorporate a red scarf thingo into this outfit – there IS a way –
and go buy a tiny pocketbook from a newsagent before they all close
so that I can walk round the party drunkenly accusing people of
spilling ink all over my poems, and I feel like I have a fair chance
of taking out the title at this Halloween 'party'. There's no title,
as far as I am aware, but there will be. I will be sure of it. And
when I win, I'm going to beat the fuck out of my drum, probably put
my fist through it, cry, yell, and then throw it at someone's
head.<br /><br />Watch the fuck out Melbourne. Today, is
Saturday.<br /><br />Peace, Taco.</div>
Aidan Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10007950481027729475noreply@blogger.com0